Particularly ones between myself and a guy I knew at school/sixth form.  That isn’t the right thing to say, he was my friend, and at one point I would have referred to him as my best friend.  I think we are still friends, in that we still email, he is on my facebook friends list, I email his wife.  I’d like to think we are still friends, but following on from my post a few weeks ago I don’t want to take that for granted. So how do I find out? Do I ask him outright? Do I just leave it and assume we are? Do I send him a link to this blog and hope he answers the question himself?

I like that idea…